Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations and even at home.Now, as we reach our 60s, it’s difficult to put our swords down and just relax a bit. Lisa and I also discuss the perception that men only want to date younger women.It's not a knock, but seriously, how would that be possible?We prefer the woman who's sitting home, reading a book as opposed to getting drunk with her friends on the weekends; we prefer the one who's life is kept more low-key, as it makes her more intriguing. It goes without saying that a woman who is very free with her offerings of affection will entice us. Just like you, we want a woman to reach out and grab our hand; we want for you to come over and kiss us randomly; we want for you to hug us and ask us how our day was. It just strengthens that connection we have with you and opens up lines of communication, but more importantly, makes us feel comfortable — invited in, so to speak. Intelligent women are ones who know so much about the world around them, but even more so, have a keen interest in making it a better place. Furthermore, they have this drive to be successful, which in itself, can be the biggest turn on there is.The woman we decide to share our world with is the one who will mother our children, help us plan life, pick us up when we're down and make us better men than we are right now. How you present yourself says a lot about who you are.But, what does the You see, there's so much that should go into deciding whom to share your life with — characteristics, in a sense, that stand the test of time. Being truly beautiful has nothing to do with what you look like, but everything to do with who you are. Wearing clothes that accentuate your body is nothing new, nor do I believe it's disrespectful. In today's society, there's something called social media, and it's basically your résumé for men.I've met quite a few beautiful women in my life whose personalities were as appealing as the dirty concrete in a New York City subway station. We want people who put as much time and energy into ensuring they look good as they do into being genuine and real. We see you laugh uncontrollably with your friends, so laugh with us. Where you go, whom you go with, what you say and how you say it reflects you as an individual.You know “that girl” you are around your girlfriends? We love women who have senses of humor and don't take life so seriously. And, truthfully speaking, men don't want someone who is everywhere, doing everything, with everyone.
After all, for most of our lives, men were simple creatures.
Lisa Copeland is a fabulous woman, with a passion for helping women to find quality men.
If you have you have ever noticed that older men are unlikely to make eye contact with your or have felt completely ignored at a dance or party, Lisa thinks she knows why.
It’s not just about speaking up for yourself — you should also listen to and seriously consider what your partner says.
Every relationship has arguments and disagreements sometimes — this is normal.
Little boys who want the girl might, but real men don't play those games.