More than 70,000 adults completed the online reader survey in February, answering about 30 questions that revealed their intimate feelings about adultery and what makes them stray or stay faithful.About three-quarters of the survey takers say they've made a monogamous commitment, with a majority either married or remarried.You see, women are conditioned to believe men will start putting on the pressure for sex by the third date, and that’s where the clutter comes in. The longer you leave her wanting you, the more she’ll need you and beg you for sex. I’ve been to a few Greek restaurants that do plate smashing. Pick somewhere that doesn’t push the romantic atmosphere too much. Literally let her sleep over like you had sleepovers as a kid.
Instead of the three-date rule for sex, make it the four-date rule for sleeping over.
But a significant portion found it easier to make that promise than keep it.
Spending years together, exchanging wedding rings, even having children doesn’t inoculate a couple against cheating.
Not Thinking Before Speaking Up “Sometimes guys just say the first thing that comes to their mind – without any filter at all! Not only do we have to worry about them texting us or how much time there is in between text message – but we’re connected on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook – everything!
Well, when it comes to dating, I love to think outside the box and keep things interesting. I like to do things differently, so the longer you make her wait for sex and the more you tease her, the more she’s going to desire you. If you plan to be there for the long term, what difference is an extra few dates going to make before you have sex? Go somewhere where they have live music or something fun. This is something I tell every guy I coach: If you want the greatest sex of your life, let her sleep over the first time without having sex with her.
In fact, married folks with kids — including women with very young children — are nearly as likely to commit adultery as childless couples.